This post was first published in my blog at my workplace under the title “Treats and the Middle Class”. Please excuse the bad language.
Economists like to classify all folks working in the IT/ITES industry as “middle class”. While a single term does simplify the formulation of economic theories, it is very far from real life. Take a look around you. The guy sitting on your right might not be sending a single penny home while the girl sitting on your left might be trying to save every penny to support her retired parents (sometimes sick), siblings (probably studying at some place) and pay back the educational loan that the family had taken for her studies while you yourself might be somewhere in between the two on this plane.
My friend Abhishek invented four levels of middle class – lower section of the lower middle class, upper section of the lower middle class, lower section of the upper middle class and the upper section of the upper middle class to be used in our friend circle. We have come up with rough definitions for each of the four classes (some of them are quite funny). Anyway, the intention of this post is not to discuss about these four levels.
The issue is about treats. It is the normal custom in this company to take the team out for a treat at CCD/La Terrace on birthdays. It is quite possible that a particular person might not be in a financial position to afford such a treat. What does the person do in such a case? While it might be easy to say that a treat is not mandatory and it up to each and every person to decide, it might be very difficult. After all, my observations have led me to conclude that the basis of treats (and of gift giving) is reciprocity. If one begs to differ, how can one really say so?
Another argument might be that those who can afford, can give treats and those who cannot can simply choose to ignore. Wouldn’t that make the ones who don’t, stand out in the group? Yet another argument would be that treats can be assumed to be a fixed annual expense and they should be factored into the annual budget, irrespective of one’s place in the four levels. Is that a valid argument? Two thousand rupees (or even less) might not mean anything to a person in the upper middle class but might be a huge sum for a person in the upper or lower sections of the lower middle class.
Yet another method would be to pool money by making a small contribution every month and then use it to treat everybody in the team. This is again just provides an illusion of not spending while over the year, the contributions might add to a significant amount.
Let’s admit it. Team mates are not friends. For friends, the 3 rupee chai and 5 rupee samosa at the tea shop outside the campus is as good as a 45 rupee some-CCD-coffee-drink and a 40 rupee Death by Chocolate. For friends, it is irrelevant that you take him to Leela Palace for your birthday while he cooks rice, dal and gobi at home for his birthday. But what about the enforced closeness of your project? Is it really necessary?
What are your thoughts on this?
PS: Please don’t give me “If we don’t treat, CCD guys, coffee growers in Coorg yeda yeda will go hungry” economics. This post is not about economics.
Thanks Karuna for the title.
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